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Tips to Attract Lesbian Girls

September 19, 2011 – 3:54 pm

If you tend to be a shy and new to the lesbian dating game then read this article to find the the main tips too attract you’re lesbian crush.

The first tip to attracting lesbian woman or you’re lesbian crush is by having a dazzling personality. Almost 30 % of adults in the U.S that do use online dating rate personality as the most important factor when finding a mate and many other studies shows that women rate personality before looks unlike males. So perfecting you’re personality and being you’re self is crucial to meeting women. Women can sense if you’re comfortable and confident and often find that a turn on.

The second tip is to keep you’re cool. If you’re shy and looking it can easily come off as insecure and desperate so matter what situation you are in make sure to stay calm and cool around your date. Women tend to get nervous on dates because they haven’t dated at all or its been a while but remember that by keeping you’re cool you give off the vibe that you can get any girl but you choose you’re girl instead, which will let you’re lesbian partner feel flattered.

The third tip is that you need to have tough skin when your out in the dating world. Rejection can be tough but everybody goes through rejection one time or another, doesn’t matter if you’re rich, pretty, short or tall. Don’t have high expectations when you’re going out in to the dating world because you might be missing out on a lot of good women by being too narrow.

The fourth tip is to keep you’re dates casual. Don’t scare off you’re date by being too conventional and romantic. Remember to have fun by getting to know each other on the first date without following any rules.

Getting into the lesbian dating world can be a bit overwhelming at first especially if you haven’t dated in a while or haven’t dated at all but just be yourself and remember to have a good time!

Lesbian Sex Scenes for the Fall Months

September 15, 2011 – 3:53 pm

It’s Fall and soon hibernation is key to survival. In lesbian dating, it’s always useful to think of steamy indoor activities you can enjoy with a new date or an old date or, if you have no date, your cat Charles.

Well, you can never go wrong renting a movie, particularly if it includes a hot lesbian sex scene. Here’s our picks for the top five lesbian love scenes in cinema:

1. Frida (2002)

Not only is this a brilliant movie about a brilliant artist, Salma Hayek gets naked and makes love to a woman. I don’t think I need to say anything else except, again, ‘naked Salma Hayek.’

2. Gia (1998)

Angelina Jolie gets it on with a stunning blonde in this made-for-TV movie. Trust me, the sex scenes definitely don’t seem made for TV.

3. Lost and Delirious (2001)

Piper Perabo and Jessica Pare star in this pretty bad movie about girls at an all-girls school. But, when Pare and Perabo explore lesbian sex for the first time, and we get a glimpse of Pare’s gorgeous, heavy, 18th century chest, any other flaws the movie might have are completely forgiven.

4. Personal Best (1982)

The sex scene between Mariel Hemingway and Patrice Donnelly in this flick is rugged and raw, and depicts lesbian sex much more realistically than most other Hollywood movies; for this reason, the scene belongs in the top five.

5. Wild Side (1995)

This movie is not well known, but the sex between Anne Heche and the beautiful Joan Chen in it is absolutely remarkable.

By gains | Posted in Lesbian celebrities, Lesbian movies, Lesbian sex | Tagged lesbian dating, sex | Comments (0)

How To flirt with a lesbian

September 2, 2011 – 5:57 pm

Whether its the the first date, a first sexual encounter or the beginning stages of you’re lesbian relationship try these tips for flirting to make you feel more comfortable and confident about what you’re doing.

1. When you and you’re partner are together try sitting next to her and see is she moves away and stays next you. If you’re thighs are touching on a couch or a seat she what she does. Does she move away or let her leg touch yours.

2. Always keep eye contact with her. You can tell if someone feels uncomfortable by a subject or physical movement if you keep eye contact with that person.

3. Be a womanly gentleman. Opening doors, holding her coat or paying for her movie ticket are simple and nice gestures that flirtatious and romantic.

4. Feel sexy and make her feel the same. Compliment her on her dress or shirt and tell her how unbelievable she looks. Lifting her confidence up will also make her feel more comfortable around you.

5. Be positive and don’t care about the outcome of the night. Women flirting with women is just a playful and fun act in itself so don’t be so serious about whether she’s the one or how she might not be the one. Enjoy the night and the company of pretty lady.

By gains | Posted in Flirting, Hot lesbians, Lesbian dating, Single women | Tagged flirting, lesbian | Comments (0)

Lesbian Parents and Heterosexual Parent both have successful children.

August 29, 2011 – 5:19 pm

Recent studies show that the deep stereotypical and much current political struggle for homosexuals who raise children are very much capable as heterosexual couples to rear a child towards success. In 2006, 3200 children were living with same sex couples in the UK, 89 % of those children had lesbian parents. The only concern in the study is that regardless of a couples sexual orientation, children tend to flourish more with two parents instead of one.

Articles that do support the parenting equilibrium between same sex parents and heterosexual coupes prove there is no one type household structure that is more effective when raising children. The only element of importance is the parenting practices that take place at home. With more positive and effect parenting practices, regardless of family structure the outcome tends to show better parent and child relationship and more effective and positive parent – child discipline.

There are many ways married lesbians or common-law same -sex partners are choosing to have children. Women that are in a couple tend to choose the youngest female partner to carry the child by choosing to go through sperm banks. The study does show that if dating and relationships aren’t the choice or many straight or gay singles the option of adoption, sperm banks or even arranged sex can still be in their favor. Single mother parents have much lower child delinquency rates, and similar if not greater parental control and higher educational performance then two parent couples and single father hood families.

By gains | Posted in Science and dating, Single women | Tagged dating, lesbians | Comments (0)

Opposites Do Not Attract

August 19, 2011 – 9:11 pm

A new study published in a recent Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin says we tend to be attracted to people who look like ourselves. Ew. Creepy. Not creepy? Narcissistic?

The study these findings were based on had subjects look at images of themselves morphed with a a stranger, or images of just a stranger. When asked who was hotter, the subjects usually chose the picture that was a morphing of them and someone else.

So, let me get this straight? When matching women to myself, I’m probably going to choose a girl who kind of looks like me? Wow. What a weird thought.

The explanation put forth by researched ad deCODE Genetics in Rekjavik makes perfect sense. It’s actually not narcissism that drives us to do this, it’s genetic compatibility. If we’re clicking on profiles of women that look like us on lesbian dating websites, it probably comes from that part of us that thinks we can make better babies with them (even though, well, as lesbian women, we, ahem, can’t make babies together.)

Research conducted by deCODE has demonstrated that while first-cousin couples have inbreeding issues, third and fourth cousin couples actually have ideal reproduction. The particular degree of genetic similarity between third and fourth cousins apparently makes for great babies. Couples that are too far removed form each other, on the other hand, might have genetic incompatibilities. Since many of use lived in smaller communities where the most distant people we could hook up with would probably be our fourth cousins, this makes total sense from an evolutionary perspective.

It would be interesting to see if similar studies on lesbian women and gay men had the same results.

By gains | Posted in Lesbian dating, Lesbian Online Dating, Science and dating | Tagged lesbian women, matching women | Comments (0)

312 Fights a Year

August 15, 2011 – 9:11 pm

Jesus fucking christ! I just read a dating stat that blew my mind: the average couple has 312 fights a year. That’s a lot of fights. That’s almost one a day. I am exhausted just thinking about it. Indeed, as a single woman looking for love in the lesbian online dating world, where I see countless women matching women, and never find that one match myself, I can not help but feel a tiny little bit better about being alone after considering this statistic. I mean – at least I’m not having 312 arguments a year with myself! Or am I. Actually, I quite possibly am…

Anyways, the majority of these 31 fights are apparently about little things such as who ate the last fudgsicle or who forgot to turn off the lights in the living room before going to bed. Not a big deal, right? Wrong. These bastardly little fights eventually build and grow and collect, and eventually become a massive source of tension between you and your partner.

This study was conducted by www.betterbathrooms.com, which is hilarious, because they are obviously just doing it so they can get you to buy their products by claiming they’ll eliminate such arguments or whatever. Anyways, the website surveyed 3,000 adults about their bickering habits, and found that the most common fight was usually over cleanliness. Ah, man, so true: nothing will kill the night of hot lesbian sex you had planned with your partner more than an argument over who is going to scrub the toilet. Nothin’.

“All couples argue,” said Nick Elson, one of the spokesman for the company that conducted the survey, “but to see how much time they argue over simple things like household chores was a bit of an eye opener. It seems a lot of time to be wasting bickering however annoying habits can get.” True, man, totally true, but the question still remains – how to solve the problem? Your bathroom products sure as hell ain’t going to solve the issue. Some intense meditation might solve the problem. But probably, realizing that we are all assholes who weren’t meant to live in close quarters with the same partner for the rest of our lives, would solve the problem in a much more effective manner.

Oh yeah, I feel totally better about being alone now.

By gains | Posted in Lesbian dating, Lesbian Online Dating, Lesbian sex | Tagged lesbian sex, online dating | Comments (1)

Lesbian Porn most popular among the Straights

August 7, 2011 – 5:15 pm

To those that are new to the lesbian scene and are wondering what all the hype is about when it comes to lesbian porn take a seat and let me explain. Most men think that girl on girl action is much more hotter then regular couple porn and these men tend to be straight. Its not only straight men that enjoy lesbian porn but also straight women who prefer watching a woman licking another woman. Thus lesbian porn is one the most popular porn videos out there.

As a straight women I love watching women eat each other out and their facial expressions. Alot of straight women get turned on by lesbian porn moves because we know what it might feel like to be touched in the right spots and licked in the right areas that we become so horny by watching it. I also know what it takes to make my nipples hard and get hot and bothered and its the exact same things I see on lesbian porn.

Another hot thing about lesbian porn are sex toys they use. All different shapes and colors of sex toys, strap ons, and beads that are used to enhance a woman’s orgasm. And lesbian porn stars also get creative by teasing each other with toys through anal fingering or oral sex . Watching a lesbian penetrate another lesbian with a strap on can really turn you on more then you think.

So the next time you’re in an adult video store check out who else might be in the lesbian porn section because it’s not just gay women. Many straight men and women and even straight couples find them selves in the lesbian porn section, some are there because of curiosity other are there to spice up their sex life.

What ever you’re reason just get out and watch some lesbian porn !

By gains | Posted in Hot lesbians, Lesbian porn | Tagged lesbian porn, strap ons | Comments (2)

The Four Dating Habits You Should Drop

August 3, 2011 – 4:59 pm

Ok, chicks, you have to stop being stupid when it comes online lesbian dating. No more fucking games. Here are four dumb-ass habits you need to drop this year:

1. Worrying whether she likes you as much as you like her.

Waste of time. Such mental torture is useless. You are an intelligent woman, and if you like her, you are probably picking up on signs that says she likes you. People generally like people who like them. Studies have proven it. And if she really doesn’t dig you, I’m sure she’ll cut it off at a point where you wouldn’t be too broken-hearted about it. Indeed, the more you worry about, the worse the disappointment.

2. Phone Games

Are you a teenager? This isn’t 1992. Don’t wait to call her. You had some hot sex last night and you really want to let her know you enjoyed it, but you feel you should wait a couple of days? Why? That’s just dumb, dumb, dumb. Don’t harass her or anything, but if you feel like communicating with her, go for it. Anything else it’s just falseness and bullshit and prolonging of your union or eventual separation.

3. Breaking Other Plans to Chill with Her

Even the assholes at Cosmo know this is a stupid move. Don’t blow off your friends because she asked you out. If she really likes you, she’ll ask you out again. This isn’t a one chance kind of deal, and if it is, she isn’t worth it. Have some self-respect and have respect for your friends, because if you don’t she won’t, and either will your friends.

4. Careless Sex

The risk for STDs and transmission of HIV is lower with lesbian sex than it is with sex between men or men and women, but there is still a risk. You should discuss your sexual histories with one another before going to bed, not engage in risky activities before getting tested, such as oral sex if one of you has sores or cuts in your mouth, or the sharing of sex toys.

By gains | Posted in Lesbian dating, Lesbian sex | Tagged lesbian dating, sex | Comments (2)

Talk to Like Me, Baby

July 23, 2011 – 6:41 pm

Not to pander to stereotypes, but in lesbian online dating, language is crucial. I’m not going to say that we talk a lot, but we are excellent communicators, most of us enjoy communication, and we value when others communicate effectively with us.

Well, researchers have now discovered that a key determinant of compatibility between any two people – not just lesbian women – is how similar the way you talk is to the way your object of interest talks. To be more specific, matching use of personal pronouns, prepositions, articles and adverbs all gets the sexual energy between two people flowing like a motherfucker.

Indeed, we are four times more likely to agree to go on a date with someone if the way they speak is even slightly matched to the way we speak.

Researchers discovered that people who texted or used IM and used similar patterns of language were 50 percent more likely to keep on dating.

As a voracious reader and someone who works in the field of communication, I find this study extremely fascinating. I’m curious as to the evolutionary function of this – is it because sharing language patterns increases the likelihood of a successful partnership? We all know that excellent communication between two people is essential to a happy relationship, and maybe we have evolved to recognize this even on an unconscious level.

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Flirty Flirts Make For Bad Partners

July 19, 2011 – 6:32 pm

A new study from Queen’s College in New York has discovered that people who are insecure make the best flirts, while people who flail and flounder at the sexual art generally do so because they are confident.

It makes sense. An insecure person will do whatever she can to please her object of interest. As one of the researchers put it, “Insecure people have developed numerous dating tactics…that they display to win over romantic partners.” I’ve see this manifest in the world of lesbian adult dating on numerous occasions.

While an insecure woman tends to focus the conversation on the object of interest, avoid topics that may be boring to the other, extend compliments and make an extra effort to be warm and engaging, the confident woman will launch into a subject that interests her and talk about it passionately – even though she might risk boring the other.

In the end, the latter move is always better. In the frantic world of women matching women, it is a waste of time to pretend you are or are not interested in something. You want to find a woman that shares your passion, or is at least genuinely interested in hearing about your passion.

While a great flirt might be good, at max, for an awesome night of hot I-wanna-please-you lesbian sex, she isn’t exactly going to make an awesome long-term partner.

By gains | Posted in Flirting, Lesbian dating | Tagged flirts, lesbian adult dating | Comments (0)